How to Host Your Own Driveway Gathering
So you want to host one? Good. Don’t overthink it.
Dudes in Driveways didn’t start with permits and committees. It started with, “Hey, you guys around Thursday?” Here’s how to do it right — without turning it into work.
1. Pick a Reason (Or Don’t)
You don’t need a big theme. But a loose idea helps.
- Bourbon night
- Old college stories
- Backyard BBQ
- Boat run
- “Bring something that matters” show & tell
- Game night
- Garage project night
The goal isn’t perfection. It’s momentum.
Pick something that gets people to show up.
2. Keep the Invite Simple
Text the group.
“Thursday. 7PM. My driveway. Bring a chair.”
That’s it.
If you wait until it’s elaborate, it won’t happen.
3. Set the Tone
A few things that make it feel intentional:
- String lights or a fire pit
- Music low in the background
- A cooler or table for drinks
- A place to stand or sit comfortably
It doesn’t have to be fancy. It just has to feel welcoming.
4. Give It a Little Structure
The best gatherings have a small anchor:
- A toast
- A quick round of introductions
- A 10-minute “topic”
- A quick game
- A group photo
Then let it breathe.
The driveway does the rest.
5. Keep It Safe and Respectful
Look out for each other. Keep it clean. Keep it easy on the neighbors.
Leave it better than you found it.
That’s part of the culture.
6. Document It
Take one good photo. Write down what you did. Add it to the archive.
Traditions grow when they’re recorded.
The Only Rule
Show up.
Adult friendships don’t happen by accident.
Hosting is just another way of saying:
“This matters.”
Start small. Keep it consistent.
The driveway will handle the rest.